Mo ma trong 4 doi phai chon kin co dinh.Chon dung huong, huong huyet xay gach day ao quan roi lap kin.Sau do khong xay, khong op gi ca.Neu xay dong mo se gay tai hoa day, vi lam sao tron vong linh nguoi am dang yen tinh tu luyen o coi am de mau chong vuot thien di dau thai kiep truoc.

Den tham mo chi khan xin phep tho dia, than linh, khong thap huong o mo khong khan goi ten nguoi chet o tai mo, viec ay chi lam tai nha minh truoc khi di tham mo.

Neu ra mo khoc loc, goi ho, thi hon ho dang o coi cao di xuong, nhan lai hai cot chi toc do rung cua nang luong linh hon se cham chap, nang ne, phi cong tu luyen thoi gian qua.Ho phai tu luyen lai.Nguy hiem lam.Mat khac nhu vay la lam xao tron quy luat coi am nen co lien quan tac dong den coi tran. Co gia dinh khong biet, cat mo xong, thi con chau dau om, gap tai nan...Chon ngay, dia diem, chon chat mot lan la dam bao.

Neu nhu chinh quyen bat di roi mo thi phai thi hanh phap luat.Nhung phai biet cach lam nhu sau :

1/ Khan tho dia, than linh khu vuc co mo sap doi.

2/ Ba co to dong ho nha minh cho doi mo cua (Ten ho)

3/ Va chon cat noi nao (dia diem moi)

4/ Neu co gi con chau khong biet xin bo qua tha thu.

5/ Con sai pham dieu gi ve phan am thi nguoi ra lenh phai chiu trach nhiem:

- Den noi moi thi cung lam thu tuc nhu khi chon cat nguoi chet.

- Khong nen mua dat lam mo gia truoc, lam xong thi con chau co nguoi chet.

- Noi nao huyet co tho dia , than linh, con chau, nguoi nha di dao huyet phai khan nhu sau : Con ten la : ...o...xin tho dia , than linh quan ly dat o day cho phep con gui xac (ong ba, cha, me...) ten la :...o noi day . Khi nhap ao quan cung nhac lai va noi them : " Neu nguoi tran trong gia dinh co dieu gi sai xot xin tho dia , than linh, than hoang o day tha thu , bo qua.

Mot vong noi voi me : " Cac bac quy tap mo ong ba la dong day, lam xao chon mo ma la mang hoa. Me dung ngoai , khong gop tien tham gia quy tap thi me khong lien doi mang hoa, tot nhat la me nen khuyen cac Bac khong nen quy tap mo cac cu nua ."

Nguoi am ton tai 4 doi tu luyen roi moi vuot Thien di dau thai

Mo ma , bia, phai dung tieng viet, khong dung chu han nom

Toi ky la yem bua trong quan tai

Mat mo la mat phan xac khong anh huong den linh hon , khong can tim mo.Khong nen quy tap mo ve mot cho , ai co tam nho ong ba to tien thi tho trong tam.

Vong nguoi con noi voi bo : " Nha minh don thay sua mo , thay yem dau cho, vi menh thay nho hon nguoi am nha minh.Sau 3 thang anh con chet dung khong(ong bo gat dau, dung), gia dinh minh xay ra tai nan : Vo xa chong, con xa bo me , co nguoi di cong tac xa phai nghiem cam viec dong mo . Moi thay coi boc mo nguy hiem lam.

Dao mo, doi xuong cot di , nhung con mau da thit o do. Nguoi am khong dong y nen lam kho khan cho con chau. Do la pham quy luat am.

Cam xa hoc tim mo la khong tot. Khong phai lam phuc dau. La pham day.Phan linh hon thoat ra ve voi con chau roi, ai khong biet moi ho ve thi hoc o con am tu luyen hoc tap , tre thi o co nhi vien , tu khi bo dung cam xa hoc , trung dua tim mo thi buon ban lam an lung tung, vang khach di, co dung khong (ong bo, dung)

Cach day 5 nam , nha minh doi mo ong , nhung nham mo nguoi khac , vi tre con da nghich doi bia tren mo ong sang mo khac , Vay la ma nha nguoi khac vao nha minh day, gay trong nha lao dao , nhieu kho khan, mat khac, khi cung no huong, nguoi am nha minh khong ve , No huong xong , no ve nha no do con chau nha no , co lao khong chu( xung quanh nghe cuoi ). Tai nguoi Tran hay dao mo ma, boc nham la tai hai lam.

BAN THO, THO CUNG. DI LE

Ban tho de quay mat ra huong cua chinh , Cao thap, to be tuy nha.De bat huong sat ban tho , 1 bat huong , 1 lo hoa the thoi.

Khong nen moi thay dat bat huong , ban tho.Tu minh lam lay, dung huong thuong , khong dung huong tam hoa hoc, thom ma doc , nguy lam.Nhat la tre con hit phai . Moi thay ho yem vao bat huong nguy hiem.

To tien ong ba yeu cau con chau co cai tam. Tam o day la tin vao tam linh.Tam linh la lam trong sang, tam co duc, tin co to tien, ong ba.Con nguoi co phan xac va phan hon la linh hon, tin co linh hon la tam linh, to tien ton tai 4 doi, o ben canh con chau ma khong biet day thoi.Luc an thi moi nhu khi con song, do la co cai tam nho to tien , ong ba. Khong phai den ngay do moi ve.

Khi cung phai khan xin tho cong nha minh cho vong linh nguoi nha minh ve thi moi duoc vao nha.

Nguoi chet gia con o coi tran, chua duoc tu luyen lau, su rung dong nang luong linh hon con gan coi tran nen ho huong mui huong cua hoa qua , thuc an khi con chau cung gio.

Con nguoi chet tre , chua co toi loi o coi tran (Say thai 1,2 thang, chet tre khi con bu...)thi thoi gian sieu thoat de vuot Thien rat ngan , nen cac vong chet tre rat thieng , khong can cung le , huong hoa gi ca vi cac linh hon nay khong co nhu cau huong thu . Ho chi can cai tam, luon nghi den ho la ho co mat do tri cho nguoi than trong gia dinh.

6h30' sang ngay 23 thang chap hang nam, cung tien dua Tao quan ve troi , khong nen dot vang ma , ao quan giay, ca chep song. Tao quan khong dung nhung thu do . Cung bang tien that, Tao quan chung cho cai tam cua nguoi cung roi bao cao lai voi Thien dinh cai tam cua nguoi cung . Con doi tien that lay tien gia , ao quan mu gia roi dot di thi tao quan dau co dung, va cung khong co hinh bong de bao cao.

Tien that, ao quan that, cung xong thi ta dung lam mac quan ao do .Nguoi am cua dong ho minh nuong theo bong dong tien , ao quan do ma do cho con chau lam an nhieu tien , mac ao do se duoc manh khoe, binh an.Sau do dot chan huong , lau don sach se,chan huong dot , goi tro nem xuong ao ho . Bat huong, ban tho thay cai moi thi cai cu vut bo xuong ao ho, song.Cam vut vao sot rac, lam sai se bi dau nhuc dau.

Nguoi am chi can cai tam cua con chau. Khong can co ban tho hay khong, cau khan , ngay o ban uong nuoc , noi lam viec, khi nam , khi di ngoai duong, khi ra khoi nha, Cau khan ai thi nguoi do se do tri cho minh.

Khi cung phai co 6 bat, 6 doi dua, 2 cai bat cho cu Tu dai, 2 cai bat cho Bo , me ( neu da qua doi) 2 bat cho ho hang, nguoi gia huong mui huong , dieu khien mui thuc an bao bat . Nguoi chet tre khong can, cung khan 5-10 phut thoi khong de lau.Cung xong la loc nha minh con chau huong, khong mang cho nha khac.

Phai cung tien that , chia 3 phan , mot phan cho nguoi duoc cung, mot phan cho Tho dia, than linh, Tao quan (du 3 va) va 1 phan cho cac cu tu dai , ong ba, cung xong dung tien binh thuong . Tien dung vao viec co ich thi duoc nguoi am do .Neu dung vao viec phi nghia nhu buon lau , danh bac, ruou che be bet...thi nguoi am khong chung , ho kho chiu, buc minh va con bi quo phat nua.

Ban vong cho chua hoac bo me chet dua len chua de an may cua Phat la hieu sai lam. Chua de nguoi tran tu hanh , khong thu nap hon nguoi chet.Sau khi chet mot thoi gian , ho ve voi gia dinh , sum hop voi con chau nhu khi con song, nguoi tran khong biet ma thoi. Ho giup do con chau de tu sua cai tam , lam an luong thien, ai biet thi "Am phu duong tro ' con chau song lam an kha len.

Di le den chua cung phai dung quy tac nguoi am. Truoc khi di,trinh tien di le len ban tho nha minh, xin to tien ong ba chung giam cho long thanh cua con chau len chua (den, mau) le Phat, Thanh, Mau.Khi den chua, den phai di ngay vao ban tho chinh, dat tien khan : Ten con... long thanh xin cong duc nha chua, (Thanh mau) so tien la... xin thanh, than, phat, mau chung giam, nguoi tran co gi sai trai xin tha thu... Sau do cam tien bo vao hom cong duc thi nguoi am moi chung cho. Tuc la nguoi am nha minh gap, noi voi nguoi am quan ly cai chua do(tuc tho cong) chu khong phai Phat, Thanh, Than, Mau luon co mat o do de chung cho minh. Lau nay nguoi Tran hieu sai, lam sai. Di cung le mai cung vo ich, co ai chung cho dau.

Cac anh em ruot la con trai, ai soi truoc, moi cac cu tu dai ve thi cac vong ve nha nguoi do truoc. Khong phai cu con trai truong thoi cung la cac cu ve dau.

Nguoi am trong dong ho,trong nguoi con trai dung dau dong ho. Khong phai la trai truong ma la con trai nao co tam duc, thanh tam tuong nho ong ba,cau khan thi ho ve.Khi ve thi cac vong ngu (dung) tren hoa tuoi dang no. Vay dong ho phai tron nguoi co tam duc chu khong nhat thiet la con trai truong. Nha khong co con trai (Chet ca) thi chon con dau, cung chon co tam duc de lo viec tho cung to tien, ong ba. Day la su huong dan cua nguoi am cho cac gia dinh hoi van de nay, khac voi tien le lau nay.

Ban tho dang dat o tang 3 dinh dua xuong tang 1 la khong duoc. Khi cung dat o ban rieng tai tang 1 roi khan thi duoc. Neu chuyen o nha moi thi co the xin dat o tang 1.

Mot vong noi voi bo chuan bi khi ba noi mat: "Bo nen lam the nay: Dat tien that len ban tho, khan ba co to 4 doi nha minh, xin gui so tien de ba co to lo phan am cho ba noi khi chet. Roi khan:"Truoc nay ba noi co gi sai trai, xin ba co to va dong ho xoa bo cho, xin cho linh hon ba ra khoi xac''.Sau do 3-5 phut cat tien, roi bao ho hang biet co tang va lam le tang.

Khi hon thoat khoi xac thi khieng ao quan thay nhe, khi hon chua ra khoi xac thi khieng ao quan thay nang. Hon da thoat xac thi co ho tang cung khong cam ung nong, nguoc lai khi hon chua thoat khoi xac ma dua di hoa tang thi linh hon bi dot nong. Vi vay tat ca gia dinh phai cau khan nhu tren de linh hon duoc do ra khoi xac.

Khong dat ban tho tho dia, than tai duoi dat. Sai lam. Dat cung ban tho to tien.Chi can 1 bat huong thoi, cung ai khan nguoi do, co tam thanh thi duoc linh ung, chung giam.