“To be fully seen by somebody, then, and be loved anyhow
- this is a human offering that can border on miraculous.”
Wouldn't it be great when all signs clear about love. I mean, you spend time talking to each other, sharing thoughts and watching movies. He does a lot for you, you laugh together, go places together. He tells you he loves you.. so that must be love, right?
Understanding if someone loves you can be confusing because there is so much going on in the relationship that looks like love but doesn't quite feel like love. For every great moment spent together there could be 2 moments that feel like pain, grief and loneliness. It can be hard to tell if you are being loved when you have so many things to wonder about.
Love is not Lust. They are two very strong emotions that feel quite the same. Sometimes, people are mistaken about it. They think that they're in love but actually in lust. Both can be fun and exciting but only one can stand against the storm and fight til the end for you.
Love is committed. Love is sacrifices. It takes time to know about you, your family, your favorites, your thoughts, your feelings, what makes you laugh or what makes you cry. Love isn't sex driven, it's driven off you as a person. You are the one that makes the other happy, not sex. Sex is only an extension of that love.
I'm so glad to hear a commitment from a guy who's never made any commitment in his life..
I love the way he stands out for me, upon and above all my wonderings. But more than that, i love him!